Dylan Mulvaney, the prominent transgender influencer and performer, has once again found herself at the center of heated national conversations about gender identity, particularly as they relate to children. Known for her viral TikTok series “Days of Girlhood,” which chronicled her transition and everyday experiences as a trans woman, Mulvaney has built a massive following through candid, often humorous content that explores femininity, self-discovery, and trans life.

In early 2026, amid her Broadway debut as Anne Boleyn in the hit musical Six, Mulvaney has resurfaced as a flashpoint in debates over transgender ideology’s influence on young audiences and the boundaries of children’s rights to self-determination.
Critics have long accused Mulvaney of promoting transgender ideology to children via her TikTok videos, pointing to her relatable, upbeat style that resonates with younger viewers on the platform. Content featuring playful explorations of girlhood, makeup routines, fashion, and personal affirmations has drawn millions of likes and shares, including from teens questioning their own identities. Some conservative commentators and parental rights advocates argue that such material subtly encourages impressionable youth to explore gender transitions at early ages, framing it as part of a broader cultural push to normalize transgender identities among minors.
They contend that influencers like Mulvaney contribute to a social environment where children might feel pressured to adopt non-traditional gender expressions without sufficient parental guidance or medical caution.

This suspicion has intensified in recent months following significant legislative shifts. In late 2025, the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, under the Trump administration, proposed sweeping regulatory actions to restrict gender-affirming care for minors. These include barring hospitals from performing “sex-rejecting procedures”—a term used in official documents for interventions like puberty blockers, hormone therapy, and surgeries—on children under 18 as a condition for participating in Medicare and Medicaid programs. Additional proposals prohibit federal funding through Medicaid and the Children’s Health Insurance Program (CHIP) for such care on youth under 18 or 19, respectively.
These moves build on an executive order aimed at protecting children from what the administration describes as irreversible harm.
The Supreme Court’s 2025 ruling in United States v. Skrmetti upheld Tennessee’s state-level ban on gender-affirming care for minors, finding it did not violate equal protection under the 14th Amendment. This decision has bolstered similar laws in over two dozen states, where more than half of transgender youth aged 13-17 now live under restrictions. By early 2026, federal proposals and state-level enforcement have created a patchwork of limitations, with advocates on one side celebrating protections for children’s developing bodies and critics decrying them as discriminatory barriers to essential healthcare.

Against this backdrop, Mulvaney’s visibility has reignited discussions about parental influence versus children’s autonomy in matters of gender identity. Mulvaney has shared stories of recognizing her trans identity from a very young age—recalling moments as early as age four when she felt different—and has used her platform to offer encouragement to queer and trans youth.
In videos addressed directly to trans kids and teens, she has emphasized messages of hope, visibility, and self-acceptance, urging them to know “there is a light at the end of the tunnel.” Supporters view this as vital representation for isolated young people, arguing that early self-awareness of gender identity is legitimate and that suppressing it can lead to mental health struggles.
The counterargument centers on the role of parents in shaping children’s worldviews from a young age. Critics assert that when parents—or influential figures like Mulvaney—introduce concepts of gender fluidity or transition early on, it may override a child’s natural development or impose adult ideological frameworks onto minors who lack full maturity to consent. They point to rising numbers of youth identifying as transgender in recent years, questioning whether social media exposure accelerates this trend rather than reflecting innate identity.
In this view, children’s “right to self-determination” must be balanced against parental authority to guide and protect them from potentially life-altering decisions before they reach adulthood.
Mulvaney’s recent career moves add layers to the debate. After facing backlash in prior years, including the 2023 Bud Light controversy that sparked boycotts and intense scrutiny, she has pivoted toward theater. Her casting in Six—a women-centered musical celebrating historical female figures—has been hailed by fans as a triumphant step into mainstream entertainment, showcasing trans talent in a traditionally cisgender role. Yet detractors see irony in a trans woman portraying a historical queen amid national efforts to define sex and gender in binary, biological terms.

The tension highlights a deeper cultural divide in America: one side champions unrestricted exploration of identity as a fundamental freedom, especially for those who feel mismatched with their assigned gender from childhood; the other prioritizes caution, arguing that irreversible medical steps should wait until adulthood and that parents, not influencers or online communities, should primarily shape young minds on such profound topics.
As Mulvaney performs on Broadway and continues posting content that blends vulnerability with celebration, her presence serves as a lightning rod. Whether viewed as an empowering voice for trans visibility or a concerning promoter of early gender ideology, she embodies the ongoing clash between individual expression and societal safeguards for children.
In a nation increasingly polarized on these issues, the conversation around Mulvaney underscores broader questions: How young is too young to explore gender identity? Who gets to decide—a child’s inner sense, their parents, or the state? And in the age of social media, where influencers reach millions of minors daily, where does advocacy end and promotion begin?
These debates show no signs of fading, especially as federal and state policies evolve and figures like Mulvaney remain unapologetically in the spotlight. For many American families, the stakes feel deeply personal, touching on rights, protection, and the future of the next generation.